Dec. 20

Photo: Dojo with his cat toy, inspecting Christmas presents.

Yesterday, December 19, would have been my sister Sarah’s 63rd birthday.

She died in 2011 at the age of 51 of an aneurysm.

Things fall apart.

Friends and acquaintances are getting divorces late in life.

Every day is a new universe that has to be reassembled from the beginning.

The rock needs to b…